4. Blaming
As the narcissist changes topics of conversations, they may well end up putting the blame on you for something. It may be things brought from the past that you thought you dealt with already, but they weren’t with a narcissist, they were just held back to be used on a specific occasion just like this one. And then, suddenly, you’re the one to blame for something and you are defending yourself once again.
You will have no idea how the conversation changed course so quickly, and that’s exactly what the narcissist wanted.
5. Playing the victim
Narcissists know how to turn the situation around to make it out as if they are the victim. This can happen in all sorts of formats. You could have asked them to do something fairly simple, but they will make out as if you haven’t considered their emotions or their situation. It will always end up with them somehow being the victim, and everyone needs to feel for them. And again, they now end up in control of the conversation.
6. Interruption
When a narcissist is having a conversation with you, they will rarely ever care for what you are actually saying, as when you are talking, it’s not them that is the center of attention anymore, and they hate that.
So they will love to be back in at the center of attention and interrupt, so the conversation has to take part by their rules. And if they notice you would get in the upper hand or a close to proving your point in whatever it is you’re explaining, they’ll just stop interrupting you and attempt to throw you off.
They interrupt you so that they can take control back and get attention back on them again. And also, you will notice a lot of Narcissists will just start yuning in the middle of a conversation.
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