3. I can accept how you feel.
As we discussed, narcissism emerges from being unheard and unacknowledged in childhood. They might not even be aware of it, but they use narcissistic behavior to compensate for a wound deeper than the sea, not being accepted by their families or in their circle of friends. Imagine how a narcissist would feel when they don’t need to aggressively assert their point of view and feelings anymore.
Empaths have a great tolerance when it comes to different opinions. They can naturally put themselves in the other’s shoes and understand them. Let them know that you can accept how they feel, no matter how unusual it is.
By doing so, you might make them feel like they never did before and open a gate to true intimacy and honest communication.
4. I know that’s what you think.
Being known for their pathological lying, one of the narcissist’s biggest fears is to witness their honest thoughts being revealed. They would rather tell their partner what they want to hear instead of the truth, with the goal of exercising emotional manipulation. That is why it is important to educate empaths on this aspect of narcissistic behavior so that they can confront narcissists.
Empaths like connecting on a genuine level and being honest about feelings, which is a good thing. They should always let the narcissist know that they understand them and know what’s on their mind. This can create a sense of safety for the narcissist and can eventually lead to more honest heart-to-heart conversations.
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