3. You are going to get the biggest guilt trip of your life.
He’s going to remind you of all the good times that you have had together. He’s going to go down memory lane and say: “Hey, remember this, oh we were so happy. We had such a good time. I want that again, let’s have that again.”
So you’re going to feel really guilty because you’re going to be like questioning yourself like: Oh, can we make this work? Should I give it one more try? He seems like he’s finally on board and he’s ready to do that.
No! you have to stay stick with their guns and stay super strong, because the moment that you give in and give up and you get back together, it’s just going to go back to their old ways where you’re going to be in a relationship with a narcissist, and it’s going to be all about that other person, and they’re not going to be able to give you what you need in the relationship.
So be ready to feel guilty because that is going to happen, but just know that that is a form of manipulation on their end.
4. They’re going to do everything they can to hurt you.
So now that you’ve made the decision that you really are going to be ending this relationship and breaking up with the narcissist, they are going to do everything they can to hurt you because you’re no longer serving them. You’re no longer serving their ego.
They know your flaws, they know what triggers you, they know what makes you upset, and they’re going to use those tool bags of knowledge to hurt you and get to the root of your heart and into your core. They don’t play fair; this isn’t a fair game and it’s virtually impossible to end a relationship with a narcissistic person in an amicable way.
So be ready to have your feelings hurt. Be ready to hear those digs and those hurtful things because they’re going to use that because their ego is super hurt right now. They’re feeling this big although they’re never going to admit it, so they’re going to do everything they can to bring you down. So just be ready and be emotionally and mentally prepared to endure that type of verbal abuse because they’re going to try.
RECOMMENDED: Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist- By DR.Ramani Durvasula
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