1. Be ready for all of the blame.
If you are in a relationship with a narcissistic person, they are incapable of taking personal responsibility for things that they did wrong for their negative actions that they’ve contributed towards the relationship. And especially since you’re the one who is contributing to this breakup and it may be it’s your idea and you’re initiating it, your other half or soon-to-be-ex other half is not going to like it at all. It’s going to be your fault; they’re going to blame you, they’re going to point the finger, so be ready for that.
You’re not going to be able to play fair and have a fair conversation in terms of whose responsibility this was that this relationship didn’t work out. So this was something to just be really mindful of and mentally prepared for it because it will happen.
2. He’s going to convince you that you’re making a mistake.
Oftentimes, in narcissistic relationships, they’re going to try to Gaslight you; meaning that they are going to tell you that you’re crazy and that things didn’t happen the way that you think that they happen, and they’re going to do everything they can to convince you to stay in the relationship and convince you that you are making a big mistake. So be ready for that.
People with narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic traits are really good at being manipulative and making you question your judgment. So it’s really important that you stay strong and know how you’re feeling and honor that and recognize that, and do not allow him to change your mind because you know in your heart of hearts that you’re not happy, and you know in your heart of hearts that this relationship is not working out for you.
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