3. Don’t fail to plan.
The third mistake you should not make when it is time to leave the Narcissist is; Failing to plan. It is important that you plan your exit with care and precision. This is especially important for those who are financially dependent on the Narcissist or have children with the Narcissist. You need to be able to survive and thrive post-Narcissist.
Think about and realize what you will be losing in the process. And if it’s No Contact that you are looking to establish, then covering your tracks will be important. Leaving a Narcissist for many should not be a knee-jerk reaction. You have to execute well and ensure you’ve thought about who you can trust in the process and even how the Narcissist may respond so that you are not caught off guard.
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I’ve done an article on things to consider when it’s time to leave the Narcissist. So, you can refer to it to help with the planning process. But those are the 3 things: No emotional Thinking. No Final Conversations and do not forget to Plan.
Narcissistic Relationships are easy to get into but hard to leave. That is why understanding what you are dealing with is important. And as I always say: you cannot wait around for the Narcissist to make the right decision concerning you. You have to take control and take the necessary steps to protect yourself.
Ok, that is it for today. As usual, I hope you all found this useful, if you did, please share it with your friends, sharing is caring!
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