2. No final conversations.
The second mistake we cannot make is that we just need to have one last conversation with the Narcissist. Do not suggest it and do not accept an invitation from the Narcissist to do this.
The Narcissist will not give you the closure that you are looking for. It is a trap. You may have good intentions of wanting to state your reasons, talk things through and end the relationship on good terms. But that is a big no-no; because the Narcissist will just use it as an opportunity to manipulate you, to shift the blame, guilt trip you, play the victim, and basically emotionally destabilize you to make you question your actions and doubt yourself.
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During relationships and at the end of a relationship, it is usually advisable to talk things over or talk things through. But this is not a healthy option with Narcissists. No dialogue is better as it will save you some emotional stress, heartache, and disappointment. This also includes text messages and emails. You need to close all doors of communication when it’s time to walk away from the Narcissist. You pouring out your pain, hurt and confusion will all be in vain.
Because The Narcissist is only going to feed off your pain when you tell them how they’ve hurt you. They are sadistic creatures. So, no final conversations with a Narcissist.
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