Question number six: Do you genuinely believe that your opinions are facts and they supersede what other people think?
Truth be told, narcissists have issues with simple things like where you want to go on your vacation, what is the right thing to do on holiday, and what political view is correct. They have an opinion about almost everything and believe their opinion is the objective truth. Instead of saying, “Well, here’s my opinion, and what is yours?” it’s like, “No, I do not want to know what your opinion is because it doesn’t matter. There is only one that matters, and it is mine.” This self-righteousness comes from their grandiosity and false ideology that they know it all. They are entitled deeply to say everyone is wrong and irrelevant before them.
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Seventh and the most important one: If you hate me so much, why do you keep coming back?
The narcissist will never tell you that they keep coming back because they need supply and cannot survive without it. They need you. Instead, they will make it about you and say something like, “I keep coming back because I pity you,” or “I know you get sad, and that hurts me, which is why I keep coming back.” They won’t tell you that it makes them feel superior every time you suffer and let them back in. They love to be needed, especially by you. They love that you’re emotionally intertwined with them and cannot let go.
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It makes them feel important and powerful. By nature, they love to be in power and to leave and then renew back is one of the ways to feel it. They may also guilt-trip you by blaming you for keeping them stuck and not letting go. In reality, their need for supply makes them more dependent than codependent.
In a nutshell, they are not able to answer any question that has something to do with reflection, realization, and connection. They cannot look within, so they just react and deflect.
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