Being in a relationship with a narcissist is like dancing with the devil in the pale moonlight. You don’t see the horns, you don’t realize he is red, and you think that pitchfork is some kind of swanky, oversized utensil. By the light of day, though, the picture starts to come into focus.
It’s difficult to identify a true narcissist or a person with a narcissistic personality. For me, I caught on almost too late to spare myself from this person who suffered from a pathological lifelong personality disorder.
It took a year for me to understand that the rules of love didn’t apply and that this relationship was a disaster to my mind, body, and soul. I found out that I was dating a narcissist.
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But did you know that one of the most important tricks to disarming a narcissist is to be in control of your own emotions? Now, of course, this is a lot easier said than done, but giving your own emotional intelligence a quick review can provide a powerful solution to problems you faced with narcissists. Once you control your own emotions, you take away a lot of the fuel narcissists need.
But here are the five tips that you can use to shut down and disarming the narcissist.
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