Today we’re looking at the phrases that expose the covert narcissist, and that’s the one that hides behind a mask of kindness or victimhood. So we’re going to break down nine specific things that they often say, what those things actually mean and the one phrase at the end that reveals their biggest fear.
And because they can look so innocent on the outside, you might not notice what is happening underneath. The words they use can be especially confusing.
They may say something that sounds caring, but there is a hidden guilt trip behind it. They may say they are “just being honest,” when they are actually criticizing you. They may tell you that they are disappointed in you, not because you did something terrible, but because you did something they didn’t want you to do. Sometimes they don’t even have to insult you directly.
A little comment here… a disappointed look there… a dramatic sigh… suddenly you are explaining yourself, apologizing, or trying to prove that you are not a bad person. And that is where things can get exhausting.
The problem is not always the exact words. It is the pattern behind those words and the way you feel after hearing them.
So here are 9 Things Covert Narcissists Say (And What They Really Mean)
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