It would come as no surprise to most of you to know that when you engage with the narcissist, you’re going to encounter quite a bit of negative emotion, and most of it on the surface is going to come off, at least initially, as anger. Narcissists can be easily annoyed, agitated, and irritable, and it can go to a rage at times where they can just have very harsh and unfavorable things to say about you.
Their fear is so strong that it prompts them to lash out towards the other individual. So, your task is to be able to see behind the mask that they have and understand the fears that are driving them. And in doing so, it can create an object in you so that you don’t take their garbage and make it really personal all about yourself, which is what they want to do because the narcissist wants you to take responsibility for their emotional stability, and that’s just simply not an appropriate way to think and to live.
So, I’ve identified seven primary fears that narcissists can have. And as I go through these, see if this is something that you can relate to with some of the people that might be in your world. And you might even take a look at yourself to see how this might relate.
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