Hoovering is a tactic used by many narcissists to attempt to get back with their partner. They use different techniques such as reminiscing about old times, faking health scares, or showing up unannounced to surprise the victim.
These techniques can work on the right victim and can lure them right back into the trap. The bigger question to ask here is, “why does the narcissist feel the need to lure the victim back in instead of just finding a new one?” Well, that is a great question.
The most common age range of narcissism is between 19 to 40 years old. This age is very self-centered and usually the one at which the most hoovering takes place. That being said, hoovering can happen for many other reasons, but usually not because they simply miss their partner.
So if your ex is hoovering you or you know someone doing the hoovering, please read this article for some sad reasons that a person might hoover someone else. You may be surprised by what you learn!
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