Number 2: Making you feel ignored by not responding.
They will be constantly online texting other people when they are with you physically. They are on their phone constantly with other people, with other sources of supply, and treating you as if you do not exist. Or they would be online and you would be online as well, but would not respond to you. When you are expecting some kind of response from them, they make you feel ignored and this ignorance is what kills your self-worth.
When a narcissist does this, they are confessing that they do not consider you as an important part of their life as you consider them. They do not care about you. They do not care for your presence. They don’t see you as a valuable person that they are attached to; they just got your attention and got you in the trap. Now that you are theirs, they don’t have to care about anything else because they know they have got you.
And this is one of the ways of devaluing you so that you can keep begging, you keep asking for that attention. You keep questioning yourself: what did I say wrong? What did I do wrong that made you do this? That made you ignore me? Do I need to change something in my behavior for you to change it? For you to become the person that you were in the early stages of the relationship? That is the kind of justification, rationalization, and thinking that happens in our heads when we are victimized by this kind of devaluation.
Continue reading on the next page
Sharing is caring!
