Number 3: They are constantly bored and their hobbies are short-lived.
Narcissists are entirely disconnected from their actual selves, which makes feelings of satisfaction and gratitude exceedingly difficult for them to experience, why? Because being satisfied is more of an emotional condition than having all of the materialistic and flashy things around you to feel satisfied. It has nothing to do with your financial situation. Of course, the quality and quantity of things contribute to the level of happiness, but ultimately, your way of experiencing fulfillment is pretty unique to who you are as a person, what you want in your life, and how you define it but nothing is ever enough for a narcissist, that is why their interest is changing.
Recommended: Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself- By Shahida Arabi.
Basically, they are uninterested in anything, it’s like they’re attempting to fill a big black hole with nothing. They switch from one interest to the next and are Changing Partners frequently. They have a habit of hoarding cars, shifting houses, and doing strange things, but what are they thinking? Because for one thing, they’re dissatisfied with what they have, they do not understand what it means to be satisfied and are disconnected from themselves.
Second, they must have that intense sense of high that you get as an addict when you use the substance, and this is the exact same feeling of satisfaction they feel every time they buy a new car or a new house. They’re with this new person and they have to persuade them, woo them, and make them fall in love with them. This is all insane and shallow and it never allows a narcissist to live a peaceful life.
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