2. Many empaths don’t have strong boundaries.
For empaths, it is very hard to say no or resist when they are being love bombed. They feel like a bad person when they refuse or say no even when it is necessary. They feel the constant urge to be there for others and to help and support them. Also, when a person is trying hard to win them over, it is very difficult for them to say no.
Empaths feel the need to be validated, to be appreciated for the efforts they put in for others and the time and care they give them. So at the end of the day, when someone gives them even a small compliment, they feel indebted and feel like they have to do something in return.
Sometimes, even when they are not being treated as fairly as they should be, they try to reason with other people’s bad behavior. They often think, maybe they did that because they’re having a bad day, or maybe I did something to hurt them, and so on.
3. They usually fall for narcissists.
Narcissists tend to have a charming personality that attracts people and draws them in. Empaths are no different, they too, have a hard time ignoring the seemingly perfect narcissists. They are impressed by the way a narcissist carries himself or herself. The way they talk, the way they smile, and their confident personality.
Another one of their irresistible qualities is their funny nature and also their good looks. Well, of course, they need something good to be narcissistic about, right? With qualities like these, it is certainly hard for someone to ignore them, especially for an empath because they’re good observers and often scan their surroundings and the people in them.
When a narcissist picks up an empath as the one, they feel very special and loved. This is mostly because the narcissist showers them with love bombs and witty compliments to win them over. And it is extremely hard for an empath to ignore all of that.
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